Solo dining
I like to eat. Most of the time, I restrict myself to home cooking or take outs. Sure, I still dine out but other than lunch with colleagues on Fridays or with meeting with friends, I don’t eat out that often. Here is the reason: I feel most restaurants do not really welcome solo dinners. Now, before I continue, I know there is this question: Why dine alone? Well, sometimes, you just want to enjoy the food…
Now, I understand to a certain extent the cons of a single diner. After all that same table the solo dinner takes could be taken by a couple instead, which means double revenue. Also, depending on where the diner lives (vs the location of the restaurant), he/she might not order alcohol, which is one of the greater sources of profit in restaurants. So, in a way, it is not as profitable.
However, there are what I consider to be pros of solo diners: In my case, I do not demand a lot nor require much attention from the waiter/waitress so it is really easy for them to take care of me. Likewise, since I am only there for the food, turnaround is relatively faster than larger parties.
Having said that, here is a non-inclusive list of places I tend to go when I want to eat alone:
- White Spot/Moxie’s/Cactus Club or similar. Actually, White Spot more than the others; the problem with the rest is that they tend to over-emphasize the alcohol in the “bar” section.
- Japanese-type restaurants (does not matter if they are run by Japanese, Chinese or Korean). They tend to have a bar section and, again, no over-emphasis on alcohol.
- Noodle places (except those in Downtown). My favourite is Lao Shan Dong (Nelson at Kingsway, across Metrotown).
- Any buffet. Well, yes and no. They usually do not mind; however, I try not to go to buffets – in fact, have not been in one in a long time.
- Diners, my favourite being Slocan Restaurant (Hastings, between Nanaimo and



Whitespot is always good for eating alone. They’re always nice. Earl’s is pretty good too and I’ve never had them trying to push booze. Cactus Club is not so great because the waitresses give single girls major attitude. It’s repulsive.